Loneliness vs Solitude

From the outside, solitude and loneliness look almost the same. Both are characterized by solitariness. But similarity ends on the surface.

Loneliness is a state which is negative, associated with a sense of isolation. You feel that something is missing. It is frequently possible to be with people and still feel alone which is a bitter deep form of loneliness.

Solitude is a state of being alone and not feeling lonely. It is a good and positive codition where you are engaged with yourself. Solitude is desirable and healthy in the spiritual life. It is a time for knowledge of self and of God.

Solitude restores body, mind and spirit while loneliness depletes them.

The cultural messages of being married or in relationship, or having children create loneliness. Advertisers play on this using clothing, food, drink, even scent and aftershave as vehicles to conquer loneliness. The power of the media is strong enough to generate the needs and desires that are required to provide the motivation to buy and acquire. But still there is something missing

The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him. Gen 2:18